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Life is full of transitions – some we eagerly welcome, others we resist with all our might. Recently, I pulled the Death card from my celestial tarot deck. While its name can feel intimidating, its message is one of hope and transformation.

The Death card isn’t about literal endings but about letting go, evolving, and making space for new beginnings. It’s a reminder that growth often requires releasing what no longer serves us. As I reflected on this card, I realized how much it applies to my own life. Its lessons can inspire others to navigate their own transitions.

The Death Card and My Life

Wedding Planning: A New Chapter Begins

I’m getting married in April, and the Death card perfectly captures this bittersweet season of my life. It’s not just about planning a wedding; it’s about stepping into a new chapter with my fiancé, Tony.

This transition has brought joy but also challenges. My mom, who passed away in 2020, isn’t here to share this experience with me. Her absence feels like a loss all over again. The Death card reminds me that endings often make way for beginnings.

To honor her memory, I’ve been incorporating elements that remind me of her. Lighthouses have always held a special connection between us. There’s even a windmill attached to our wedding venue. It reminds me of an old lighthouse trinket she used to own. It feels like a quiet nod from her, a way of saying she’s still guiding me through this new chapter.

Letting go of perfection has been another lesson. Wedding planning comes with opinions from everyone. I’ve learned to release the need to please everyone. I focus on what matters: celebrating love and the future Tony and I are blending and building together.

Career: Dreaming of More

The Death card also speaks to my career. While I’m grateful for the opportunities I’ve had, I can’t help but feel there’s something greater calling me. This path aligns more closely with my passions and purpose.

This card reminds me that it’s okay to want more, to dream of a career that lights me up inside. It’s not about abandoning what I have but about exploring what could be. For me, that means leaning into my love for writing, blogging, and even diving deeper into my spiritual journey.

If you’ve ever felt this way, know you’re not alone. It’s natural to yearn for growth and fulfillment. Change doesn’t have to happen all at once; sometimes, it’s about taking small steps towards your bigger vision.

Family Dynamics: Navigating Blended Families

As a stepmom to three amazing kids, I’ve faced my share of challenges. Blended families are complex. Taking on a motherly role, without truly being their mother, has been one of the hardest adjustments for me.

I’ve already accepted that I’m not their mom, and I respect the relationship they have with their mother. Finding my place in their lives has been a delicate balance. I want to support and guide them while still respecting boundaries, which isn’t always easy.

The Death card reminds me to let go of the need to have everything figured out. It’s okay to feel unsure or even overwhelmed at times. What matters is showing up with love and patience, even when the road gets bumpy.

For others in similar situations, understand that it’s normal. You are feeling the weight of a role you didn’t expect to have. You’re not alone in this journey, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time.

Blogging: Shifting Focus

My blog has been a space for exploring true crime and the paranormal. Lately, I’ve felt called to shift gears. I want to share more personal stories – my struggles, triumphs, and lessons learned.

The Death card encourages me to let go of fear. This includes fear of losing readers, fear of change, and fear of failure. By embracing this new direction, I’m opening my blog to a broader audience. I am creating a space where others can feel seen and understood.

I hope my words can inspire and connect with others. Whether it’s sharing my love for writing, I enjoy discussing spiritual journeys or offering advice on navigating blended families.

The Gift of Letting Go

The Death card isn’t about loss; it’s about transformation. It teaches us that by releasing what no longer serves us, we make space for new opportunities, relationships, and experiences.

If you’re facing a season of change, I encourage you to embrace it. Let go of what’s holding you back and trust that something greater is on the horizon. Just like the Death card reminds us, endings are never the end – they’re just the beginning of something new.